Tuesday, April 15, 2014

No more wasted time

Last night I read No More Wasted Time by Beverly Preston for the second time. I love this book SO much. It's a romance novel, but it's not the typical, annoying girl-meets-boy (who happens to be a gazillionaire), and poof they're in love and married within days. This does have the gazillionaire male lead, but even that is treated differently.

Warning: I can't talk about this without being all spoilery, so be aware. Although, it's a romance. Happily ever after and all that so you should go in knowing how it ultimately ends anyway.

Tess is the main character. She is a 45 year old mother of three children, ranging from ages 18-23. Her husband of almost 25 years died a year previously. The book opens in the airport, where she is sending her daughters off to Europe for a group tour, and she is leaving herself for Bora Bora. That was the favorite vacation spot of hers and her husband's, and she is taking his ashes there for a final goodbye and closure.

The first morning there, she encounters Tom, a famous movie actor, and the next morning finds out he has stolen her private boat tour that was their favorite activity on the island, and when she was going to release his ashes. She is livid, and unleashes her temper at him. Ultimately, they share the trip and she is glad he's there.

Moving on - Tess and Tom are very attracted to each other. She has read in the tabloids he doesn't commit, ever, and she isn't looking for a relationship. She feels like she was lucky enough to have her husband for so long, and to have been happy with him throughout their marriage. She doesn't think she'll find that again. They have a vacation fling, but as they get to know each other better it turns into more. Since she had suddenly lost her husband, Tess had developed a mantra of "life is too short to waste time being unhappy."

Here is what's different, though: Reality. Tess, understandably, deals with guilt about her husband. Also, she has her kids. True, they are mostly grown, but they are still part of her life and the "total package." Tom likes to do things for her, but she adamantly doesn't want his money. She and her husband were careful with theirs, and she has her own. She doesn't need him to take care of her, and has to learn to let him give her things. There is conflict with her kids, who only know the tabloid version of his life and want to protect her. But, they deal with everything together. He gives her space when she needs to grieve for her husband. They talk about him and her memories. Another big difference between other typical romance novels is the couple's ages. Tess is 45 and Tom is 49. They are mature enough to deal with relationship issues. Tess is a fireball, though, and one major conflict she actually drives over her phone to keep Tom from calling, but in the end they have a real discussion and work things out.

Ultimately, Tess and Tom have their happily ever after. Tom, who has never had a family of his own, develops relationships with all three of Tess's kids, and Tess blends seamlessly into Tom's A-list life. And the message of the book, reflected in the title, is universal, regardless of financial status: Life is short. Enjoy your time with your loved ones. Treat yourself well, and your loved ones well. And Tess and Tom's financial motto is a good one - give some, save a lot, and truly live with the rest.

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Sixteen...

Tomorrow, my baby girl turns 16. My first born daughter, my mini-me, center of my universe for so long.

Wow.

This precocious little girl, who loved dressing up, all things pink and purple, Barbie, and Bear in the Big Blue House is now a sophomore in high school. She has a boyfriend, friends that drive, and just had an interview for her first "real" job. In just two short years, she'll be preparing to graduate high school and go on to college. She'll be leaving us to go out on her own, out in the big scary world.

It doesn't seem possible.

How can time move so quickly??

We are very proud of the young woman she's becoming, but at times I do miss my little girl.

Happy birthday, kiddo! We love you very much!


Saturday, April 5, 2014

Cover reveal for Chasing Shadows. It's coming!!



Last year, one of my favorite authors and friend Tia Bach released the YA novel Chasing Memories. My teenage and I both read it and love the book! Happily, the sequel, Chasing Shadows, is about to make its debut!



About Chasing Shadows (Tala Prophecy, Book 2)
Reagan thought one night changed her life forever, but her fate was written long ago.

Merging creature and white blood,
One of flame, one of night,
At eighteen years it will commence,
Spiritual warrior and power,
Will bring an end to the lawless ones.

A war looms: One that pits brother against brother for werewolf supremacy. Angels and demons will each have a say before a victor is chosen.

With her eighteenth birthday only six months away, time is running out. Reagan must find a way to harness the two powerful, ancient bloodlines coursing through her: Werewolf and Wiccan. Then, she has to figure out her role in the century-old prophecy foretold by her great-grandmother.

However, if Reagan can’t save her family from her most vicious rival, Rafe, the forces of Hell will be unleashed and the war will be over before it starts.
Cover Design by Jo Michaels: http://jomichaels.blogspot.com/ 



About the Author

Tia Silverthorne Bach is an avid reader, sometimes runner, involved wife and mother, and rabid grammar hound in addition to being a multi-genre writer. Her three daughters were born in Chicago, San Diego, and Baltimore; and she feels fortunate to have called many places home. She's the award-winning co-author of Depression Cookies, a coming of age story written with her mother. Tia's office is wherever her laptop takes her and any place that's conducive to allowing a wild imagination like hers to flourish.

Connect with Tia
Website: www.tiabach.com

Monday, February 17, 2014

Four!

Miss Sophie turned 4! I can't believe she's getting so big.

Current favorite things:

Little Einsteins
Doc McStuffins
Books
Pretend play (dress up, kitchen, baby dolls, doctor)
Puzzles
Singing
Dancing
Polly Pockets
Littlest Pet Shop
Dogs
Hello Kitty
"lipstick" (lip balm)
Bubble baths
FaceTime
Pizza
Peanut butter & jelly sandwiches
Bacon
Scooby Doo
Coloring
Spending time with her big sister






Sunday, December 8, 2013

Nativity




This is our nativity set. The building is new, I got it last year, but the characters are older than I am. My parents got the set their first Christmas after they were married, 42 years ago.

When I was a child, my favorite thing was to set up our nativity, and then it was my favorite toy until it was put away for the year. When my husband & I were married, my parents passed it along to us.

When E was small, she'd play with the characters just like I did. Now, Sophie plays with it. It is still my favorite Christmas decoration.


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Friday, December 6, 2013

First Christmases




These are the "Baby's First Christmas" ornaments for the girls. There are others, too - the Hallmark ornaments with trains, the baby alphabet block with a photo, fun ones like that. The one on the left is pewter and has been hanging around since 1998, E's first Christmas.

I tried to find another like it twelve years later for Sophie's first Christmas, and the silver teddy bear was the closest I could find.

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Thursday, December 5, 2013

Christmas stories

I love our Christmas decorations. Many of them are old, and almost all have their own story.




This ornament is one of my favorites. My husband and I bought it on our honeymoon. We spent that weekend in Chattanooga playing tourist- Ruby Falls, Rock City, Lookout Mountain, Chattanooga Choo-Choo, and the Tennessee Aquarium. I found this ornament in the aquarium's gift shop and loved it instantly. Every year it is carefully packed in its box, and thankfully after sixteen years it still is in perfect condition.

Stay tuned for more Christmas stories!



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Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Double standards in advertising

K-Mart has caused quite a stir with their new holiday commercial for Joe Boxer. Television viewers are up in arms, saying it's indecent, inappropriate, and should be banned. Personally, I thought it was funny.
Is it suggestive? Certainly. Are the men covered? Definitely. Has the brand been known for being tongue-in-cheek? Always, especially before K-mart purchased it. But there are so many ads that are just as suggestive and even more sexual in nature. Why the fuss over this one?















This commercial is for perfume.
It is far racier than the Joe Boxer commercial, which is at least advertising underwear. The Joe Boxer commercial is being called brash, distasteful, offensive, and vulgar. Many of the general public are outraged! Comments on Kmart's facebook page say "Pull this ad, it has no place on public television." "What is wrong with you people? This is uncalled for!" "Kmart your new commercial sucks and is disgusting! I will never shop at your store again!" "Think of the children who will see this!" But no one is outraged over the Victoria's Secret commercials, the Hardees/Carls Jr commercials, the GoDaddy commercials, the various beer commercials. So why the double standard? Is it really okay for women to be portrayed as sex objects in advertising but not men? What are people afraid of?

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Still thankful

I'm thankful for my job
Netflix
Our pets
Blankets
DVR
Babies (Happy birth day beautiful Ellie!)
Books
Sunshine
Tea
Friendship
Heaters
Cuddles
Singing
Laughter
Technology
Snapchat silliness
Ohmygoodness hugs
Mom-daughter time
Kisses on my forehead


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Sunday, November 10, 2013

Day 10

The toy commercials are out in full force. As a result, I am SO thankful for Santa Claus. Why? "Ask Santa" prevents this conversation from happening a thousand times a day:

"I want a Loud Crappy Toy!"
"No"
"Pweeeeeese! I want it!"
"No"
"But I neeeeeed it! Can I have it?"
"No"
And tears.

Instead, this exchange happens:

"I want that! Can I ask Santa?"
"Yes"
"Yay! I'll ask Santa!"

Because I KNOW that 99% of these things she's asking for will be forgotten. I feel no guilt at all with Santa being a type of scapegoat. She doesn't get that piano? "Sorry, sweetie, Santa couldn't carry it on his sleigh."



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Saturday, November 9, 2013

Days 8 and 9

Day 8
I'm thankful for ice cream, chocolate syrup, and Glee on DVR. I'm thankful for girl time with my oldest daughter. I'm thankful for laughter.

Day 9
I'm thankful for Saturday. Enough said.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Day 7

Today was spent at home, mostly on the couch on a heating pad. It seems Sophie is getting too big for me to carry to bed when she falls asleep in mine.

So today, I'm thankful for flexibility. I'm thankful for cell phones and internet connections that let me do my job from the couch. I'm thankful for ibuprofen and heating pads, Disney Junior and Netflix. I'm also thankful for little imaginations and cuddles and kisses.




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Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Day 6

I am thankful for 72 degrees in November, and eating lunch outside in the sunshine with one of my oldest friends.

I am also thankful for friendship, for good friends who know all of you - the good and the bad - and love you anyway. The friends who have seen me at my worst and supported me, and who are always there for each other no matter what.



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Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Days 4 and 5

Day 4. Monday.
On my 5 pm commute home, that is over an hour driving west, I am very thankful for Daylight Savings Time. It is such an eyesight saver!

Day 5
I'm thankful for Pinterest. I've found some delicious recipes there! Here are some of the more recent ones:

http://growingupgabel.com/amish-baked-chicken/   
http://growingupgabel.com/amish-baked-chicken/
http://jujugoodnews.com/taco-pasta-bake/ 

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Day 3

I'm thankful for my parents. They are wonderful people and I'm very lucky to have them.